Sonntag, 22. Januar 2012

We Wish You a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year

Wow, I can’t believe Christmas is over and that now a new year has begun. I officially have been in Germany now for four months and have about seven left. It’s gone by so fast already, I can’t even imagine how much faster it’s going to go by after first semester ends and then we have the break from school from mid-February to mid-April. And then once April gets here, and all of new JYMers come, new classes, weather changing, etc….it will almost be time to go home. I’m not exactly sure how I feel about this. But since that’s not something to focus on yet, I will just have to write about Christmas and our two week break!

Christmas was so much fun! Germany celebrates Christmas very differently, and I hope I can think of/remember all of the ways they celebrate. On the 6th of December, St. Nikolaus comes and gives children a boot full of goodies. Germany also doesn’t really have Santa Claus, they have the Christkind instead. The Christkind comes the night of the 24th and brings all of the presents. It’s actually not while the kids are sleeping though, it’s usually when the kids are lured into a different room and the parents frantically rush to set everything up under the tree, or when someone dresses up at the “Christkind” and personally delivers the toys.

The history behind the Christkind goes like this:


According to Wikipedia in German, this is what the Christkind is seen as today:
Das Christkind ist heute, wie der Weihnachtsmann oder der Nikolaus, eine Symbolfigur des weihnachtlichen Schenkens. Erwachsene erzählen ihren Kindern, dass es im Allgemeinen ungesehen an Heiligabend oder in manchen Regionen auch in der Nacht zum 25. Dezember in die Häuser kommt und die Weihnachtsgeschenke bringt. Früher kam oft eine engelsgleiche Christkind-Darstellerin zur Bescherung in die Familien und mancherorts besteht dieser Brauch auch heute noch. In den letzten Jahren wurde das Christkind immer mehr zu Werbezwecken verwendet, besonders oft als Mädchen mit blondem Haar und blauen Augen.


Another fun thing that German families do that I had never heard of before is the Adventskalendar. Apparently there are families in America that participate in this tradition as well, however, my family was not one of them, which I find funny because my step dad was actually born in Würzburg, Germany. The Adventskalendar begins on the 1st of December and goes all the way to the 24th, or Heiliges Abend. Each day, and not ever Adventskalendar is the same, a door on the Adventskalendar is opened, which usually has sweets, a small gift, a picture, etc. It makes it especially fun for the children who get to wake up every morning and eat pieces of chocolate for breakfast. A lot of times Adventskalendars are personalized, but you can also have family ones that the entire family can participate together with. I got one from the Krater’s on Thanksgiving, and every day (when I remembered), I’d open a door and eat the chocolate inside. It really is a cool tradition that I want to keep up when I go home—even if I have to make my own Adventskalendar.

Here is an example of one:



For the 24th, my friend Becca and I were invited by a couple in the church, Roman and Sybille, to spend the evening with them and spend the night. It was such a unique opportunity because they both are German and do everything in the German tradition. I was very excited to spend more time with them also because Sybille is someone we had great conversation with at the Frauenfrüstück and her husband has always seemed so nice. His English is actually very good, much of which he said he has learned from movies and Youtube. J We met their house and they decided that they wanted to go for a walk as a family. That’s one thing about Germans that I love—they are always outside doing something together, despite the weather. Sybille and Roman are still working on finding their regular family traditions and so everything that night was kind of a test run for them. As we were walking together to the park it started raining/snowing. You could see them get a little frustrated, and they were trying to improvise through the weather.

I actually thought it was kind of nice to see that side of them. They were really open about still working on finding a family tradition, and the fact that they let us be a part of their family for a very special holiday was extremely encouraging. It was also nice because they kept asking us what we thought might be a good idea. I’ve always been so used to the parents making all of the decisions and then doing what I’m told, that it felt really nice to be treated like their friend instead of one of the children.

We then went back to their flat and had dinner together. We ate potatoes, meat, and a vegetable..unfortunately I can’t remember exactly what it was, but I do remember that it was so good. Sybille was cute because she was afraid her cooking wouldn’t be that good, but I thought it was incredible. We had coffees and teas to drink, water, and chocolates for desserts. After we ate enough I played with Felix (the younger one) while Sybille led Justus into the other room so that Roman and Becca could set up the big toy train and track from the ‘Christlkind’, among other gifts. Justus was a little upset that he had “just missed the Christlkind” but the toys made him completely forget about his sorrows.

The kids went to bed not too long after and the four of us just sat and talked for a while. Becks and Roman were having crazy-philosophical-God discussions, while Sybille and I went to the other side of the room (because I can’t speak German or hear it well when English is being spoken so closely), sat on the couch and just got to know each other. I love how she even said that she was glad I wanted to speak German because she doesn’t like English that much haha. I don’t blame her. I generally prefer my mother language as well.

We did a gift exchange and sang Christmas songs together, while still drinking a lot of tea and coffee. Becks sang (very beautifully) ‘O Little Town of Bethlehem’ and I printed out ‘The 12 Days of Christmas’ for all of us to sing. I had never thought about it much before, but the vocabulary in that song is just really awkward…but fun J. Before we went to bed, we sat by the couch and prayed together. It was wonderful and I loved it. I love hearing people pray in their native tongue. Sometimes it’s hard because my heart doesn’t connect with German like it does English (obviously), but I hope one day it will have a deeper meaning. I think that’s why I have a hard time pushing myself to speak German. It feels weird and uncomfortable and I feel less like myself. But with time, I’m sure a German personality would come.

The 25th Becca and I made THE BEST CHRISTMAS DINNER. We went to the store the day before and bought everything needed to make a lasagna, salat, garlic bread, and American cheesecake. So we dressed up for fun, used her GAP room (because all of the people on her hall were gone), listened to Christmas Music while cooking, and just had fun together. I tried going to bed at 11:30 because I was soo tired, but she convinced me to stay (partially because some guy from Turkey came in and she didn’t want to be left alone) and we ended up staying up until 4 in the morning talking about God and philosophy. I never thought I would be someone to be able to talk about philosophy very well. It’s a very complex subject, but it would make sense that I end up liking it since I overanalyze every part of my life. Plus I really love hearing her thoughts and learning her perspective on things. I also got to skype my family back home for three hours earlier that afternoon and open presents with them (that I had gotten from my grandparents.

The 26th the Krater’s (my second host family) invited Becca and I over along with others to their house for dinner. Claudia made a ham, vegetables, and other things and it tasted very good. After dinner we played The Game of Life in German, and then just hung out and talked for a while. After Becca and I walked back to the S-Bahn station, we still had 30 minutes to wait, so we sat down, ate all of the chocolate and candy we’d just gotten for Christmas, laughed, and talked to some old German who kept asking why we knew German. Good times.

For Slyvester (or New Year’s Eve) I hung out with people who are in my program. Sami and Julia made dinner for all of us, and we met in Sami’s room and ate salmon, noodles, with a mushroom sauce, and had lots of champagne. It was such a random group of people, but I loved it, it was really fun. We went to Olympiazentrum after eating to watch the fireworks. At Olympiazentrum (where BMW Welt ist) there are really big mountain tops that you can walk to the top of and see over Munich. It’s beautiful, and especially also at night with all the lights on in the city. There were so many people on the bergs, drinking, shooting off fireworks, and some even shooting off fireworks from beer bottles. It got a little terrifying. Once it got close to midnight, people started shooting fireworks off all over the city. It looked INCREDIBLE because fireworks were seriously everyyywhere. I’d never seen so many fireworks in my life. They were literally coming from every direction. We had brought a bottle of champagne with us, and after it hit 12, drank it while saying Happy New Year to each other. Then Sami, Julia, and I went back to Sami’s room when we got back and watched episodes from Boy Meets World J Because it doesn’t matter how old you get, that TV show is the best. 

Here are some pictures from New Year's Eve:
 View walking up to Olympiazentrum mountain.



 Amy, Steven, Julia, and Sami

 FEUERWERKE



 Sami und ich

 Steven, Amy, and Julia.



If you want to see a video of the fireworks, I posted one on my Facebook!

I know I’m a little behind on my blogging but I sincerely hope to get caught up soon! I hope you all had a very Merry Christmas, and are enjoying 2012 so far!

Love, Jessica

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